Fail

hmm that is weird we talked about lies at church today, after i wrote the post yesterday about lies. anyway, I wonder if it is a good thing to do more than you have to. like if giving more accomplishes more than yes, give all you can. but if you only need to get to a certain level, why go above it? i think sometimes if we set ourselves out at a certain level, we feel we have to maintain that level. the thing is though, the better we do, that is where our expectation for ourselves is set. if we get 60 the first day, and the second day we get 70. then the third day we want to get at least 70. and if we get 80 the third day the fourth day we feel we will need at least 80. our standards just keep rising. so i think for many things we should not push to do better. two people live differently. one shouldn't nessisarily tell the other person they are wrong because maybe the other person likes the way they are doing things just fine. it all comes down to we want other people to be like us. if we are afraid of something, we want everyone else to be afraid of it. if there is a problem in our life, we would feel good if everyone else had the same problem. don't tell someone not to do something because you are afriad to do it yourself, and you don't like to see someone else not be afriad to do it. we make our own little comfort zone and it makes us jealous and angry when we see someone elses comfort zone encompases more things than ours. you be as safe as you want, but someone else might rather follow their heart than their head.