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Even worse advice , go for her best friend, or get to know her mum. Its important to know the kinda of people she hangs out with, what she could be or look like someday. If you want to look at it this way you always need a purpose. If you don't have a purpose your just playing a game and are going to devistate people , think first, life is not just a game. So your purpose is either for temporary or long term fulfillment. So if your thinkin temporary fulfilment you probably don't need too much advice yet except that treat the relationship same way you would look for a good friend a person you will spend time with and share your different everyday experiences together. Long is Long like forever so think far (distant). If you don't want someone who's lazy, an alcoholic. unemployed,and stupid, you shouldn't go for someone that has similar traits to Television Idols (i.e. Homer Simpson),If you want someone that knows how to cook get your fine friend to cook you a meal. You don't even have to do this , if the persons reciepe book contains jello, k-dinner, packet porriage, cereal, canned food, pre-packaged, and frozen dinners, either they cant afford to buy good food, or more likely they just dont know a thing about food preperation. The worst places to be looking for someone is the (4)un-employment centre (3)welfare check line (2)Jail (1)Stop signs or Merge zones. Remember don't even think about people that do things that erk you or get under your skin. well thats enough baby food for one night. i think i am going to have some toast and a mug of ovaltine mixed with warm milk. Another thing spend time drinking coffee(or other non-alcoholic beverage) and spend time talking.